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45 [M4F] #NYC #Online The Enlightened Alpha

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I'm the enlightened alpha. Sure enough to have a plan, and smart enough to know it's probably not worth a sh*t. So instead I try to be good at my job, better at making friends, best at keeping friends, and never suffering mediocrity.

If you're a child of the 90's, or you find silly teenage humor in cat memes and sarcasm - then I'm your huckleberry. I try to not take anything too seriously!

I'm an executive, worldly, highly educated, and work some demanding hours. My romantic story is one shared by so many others on here. Domestic normalcy. NOT a cake eater. We've perused enough of these to know it all by now, no? I spent much of my life in the military, and it's now a part of my character. But flip flops and shorts are my true medium. I'm a part time resident of NYC, and travel often, everywhere. So I'd actually welcome something online, with maybe a promise of meeting one day. But not so picky as I tend to find the magic in all.

I'm sure though that I haven't heard your story yet and if you'd like to share, I'm all ears. I'm witty and wear my heart on my sleeve, and always love to hear the perspective of others. It's the only way we truly learn. I'm decently in shape, tall, bearded (sorry, that's not changing); think the sexy lumberjack in a three piece.

I'm not a stranger to an AP, or that side of life. But I'm only seeking a single partner to see where it goes. Nothing physical immediately. I'd like a woman who knows what heels can do, why you pay more for a good meal or good wine, and when it's time to enjoy a hot dog. Your shape is immaterial, but I hope you like to chat and dream, because I'll want to hear about it. If I came even close to who you are, or that I might be your type - message me!

Posted Mar 6, 2026, 8:44 PM UTC

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