Waitlisted from my only choice

Seeking Advice

Unfortunately, my situation limited me to only being able to afford to apply to one school, UNCG. I applied to the online program because I work fulltime and am the only caregiver for my disabled wife. I know that only applying to one college isn't recommended because of how competitive things can get, but I didn't have a choice.

I received the email today that I was waitlisted. I understand that this isn't an outright rejection, but I'm really unsure how I'm supposed to feel about this. Am I supposed to be happy? I cried for a good ten minutes and don't even want to tell anyone who knows I've been waiting because this doesn't feel like good news.

Is there something I can do or say to help my chances of being bumped up the waitlist if a spot becomes available? Is this not as terrible of an outcome as it feels like? Anyone have any suggestions to help cope or advice for someone in my situation?

Posted Mar 6, 2026, 8:45 PM UTC

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