So how do the ladies here go about finding their AP here?

Okay, so Im new here so a brief background. Was on AM about 8 years ago and was lucky enough to find an AP. All great until a relocation so still friends nd chat but the in person is no longer. AM was a shitshow 8 years ago and not an option.

Joined this sub, r/affairs and looking at AP "ads". 99% M4F.

So where or how do the ladies here seach for an AP here? Are you reaching out to the M4F posts? Are you posting F4M posts? And lastly (for now) how are you searching/finding an AP in your location?

Thanks!