F42 M35 [F+M4M+M] #Sydney to form stable polycule

[F42/M35] Sydney-Based Couple Seeking Two Straight Men (20s) for Stable, Loving Polyamorous Relationship About Us: Hello, r/polyamory! We're a committed, loving couple in our early 40s and mid-30s, based in Sydney, Australia, looking to expand our family with two wonderful straight men in their 20s. I'm (F42) an adventurous, empathetic professional in the creative arts field—think painting, writing, and exploring local galleries on weekends. My partner (M35) is a grounded, humorous tech enthusiast who loves hiking, cooking up gourmet meals, and diving into deep conversations about philosophy and science. We've been together for over a decade, building a strong foundation of trust, open communication, and mutual respect. Polyamory has been part of our journey for the last five years, and we're excited about creating a stable, supportive polycule where everyone feels valued and connected. We're both active, health-conscious folks who prioritize emotional intelligence, consent, and personal growth. We enjoy outdoor adventures like beach days at Bondi, weekend getaways to the Blue Mountains, and cozy nights in with board games or Netflix marathons. We're non-smokers, social drinkers, and we're fully vaccinated/boosted. Physically, I'm 5'6" with a curvy build, long dark hair, and a warm smile; he's 6'0" with an athletic frame, short brown hair, and a beard that suits him perfectly. We're both straight-leaning but fully supportive of diverse orientations within ethical non-monogamy. What We're Seeking: We're hoping to find two straight men in their 20s (ideally 25-29, but flexible) who are interested in joining us for a long-term, stable polyamorous relationship. This could evolve into a quad dynamic or a V-shaped structure with me (F) as a potential hinge, depending on natural connections and chemistry. We're not looking for casual hookups or one-night stands—this is about building genuine emotional bonds, shared experiences, and a committed partnership. You should be straight (attracted to women), single or ethically non-monogamous, and open to polyamory with clear boundaries. Ideally, you're:

Mature, kind-hearted, and emotionally available—someone who values deep talks, vulnerability, and supporting your partners. Adventurous and fun-loving, with interests that align with ours (outdoors, arts, tech, or similar) to foster shared activities. Located in or near Sydney (or willing to relocate for the right connection), as we envision in-person dates, group outings, and eventually cohabitation if things progress naturally. Health-focused, with good hygiene, STI-tested (we are too and expect regular testing), and committed to safe practices. Open to exploring dynamics where you connect primarily with me (F), while respecting and building a platonic friendship with my partner (M). We're all about compersion here—no jealousy, just joy in each other's happiness.

We're seeking two individuals separately, but if you're friends or already know each other, that's a bonus! Diversity in backgrounds is welcome—we're an inclusive couple and value different perspectives. Our Expectations and Boundaries:

Communication is key: We use tools like shared calendars, regular check-ins, and poly resources (books like "The Ethical Slut" or "More Than Two") to keep things healthy. Pace: Let's start slow with coffee dates or video calls to build trust. No pressure for physical intimacy until everyone is comfortable. Commitment: This is for a stable relationship, so we're looking for reliability, honesty, and long-term potential. Dealbreakers: No smoking, hard drugs, or drama. Must be respectful of our existing relationship and enthusiastic about poly life. We're child-free and plan to stay that way. What We Offer: Emotional support, fun adventures, intellectual stimulation, and a nurturing environment where you can grow. We're financially stable and love spoiling our partners with thoughtful gestures.

If this resonates, please DM us with a bit about yourself: your age, interests, why polyamory appeals to you, and a recent photo (we'll share ours too). Let's chat and see if we click—respectful inquiries only, please. Looking forward to hearing from you! ❤️ The Sydney Poly Duo