furries and kinksters: are you treated the same as a cis guy?

any of you guys that are into the furry and/or kink scene, do you feel like youre treated differently or the same as cis guys?

especially curious to hear from people who have had bottom surgery, because my goal is to get meta and hopefully look cis passing (ive seen a decent few meta dicks that look very convincingly like natal micropenises), and im also a furry and looking to involve myself in more public kink stuff when im fully transitioned.

the thing is, i dont want to be treated differently from cis guys, seen differently from them, treated as a novelty etc. my goal is to be stealth. but at the same time, a part of me wants to be openly trans and cis passing even fully nude so that i can inspire others that feel like i do right now. but i dont know if this is possible. sometimes i feel like id be better off distancing myself from social media, from most furry spaces, all kink spaces, etc. and pretending im not different or missing out on anything. i dont want to be jealous of queer cis guys forever, but i cant stand being treated differently.

anyways, sorry that this was kind of a vent as well. but im really genuinely curious to get some advice or anecdotes from others.