When my mother dies....

When my mother dies, I will never ever ever ever have to deal with my siblings who do not call. When I ask for help, all they do is gripe and complain and tell me that their important lives are too busy. But I AM IMPORTANT TOO and disappearing in the quicksand that is eldercare. I make their lives possible because they can live a life not giving a second of thought to my mother. So when she dies, I am walking away from everyone. That's all I have to say