32 [M4A] #online - Why does it seem you rarely have any success here?

Hey! I've had some really nice interactions with people on here, and I appreciate everyone who's reached out to me. Everyone has such interesting stories and personalities to jam with. if I don't respond to your message, It's likely because I've found enough people to chat with for the evening!

We've all been there. After either sifting through the duds of chat requests, or sending out your own chat to someone, you finally find a fun partner. Things go well at first, but then you get ghosted.

Or maybe after various attempts at reaching out, you get nothing, and you wonder why you're wasting your time here. Maybe you're new and don't yet know how to discern from the bots or fake profiles, or maybe you're seasoned and need someone to let you down easy and say "hey, you're a dry conversationalist".

Let's chat about it! Spill your frustrations about your time trying to get down with other people to me, I'm curious to hear!

*Things I'm happy to talk about:*

-The frustrations of being ghosted

-lame conversation partners you've had and why they suck!

-an open chat seeking advice what you might be able to do to get more traction

-success stories if you have them!

-nsfw topics are rarely ever off the table! If we vibe, let's flirt and see where things go! (for this purpose I identify as straight, but still happy to have normal convos with all!)

*Things that will turn me away from continuing to chat with you:*

-a conversation that ends up me just asking you questions, followed by short replies. I'm not interested in an interview.

-low effort introductions.

-not stating your age or gender.

-generally disrespectful attitudes.

-if you intend to have a conversation with me completely unrelated to my prompt, then at be prepared to lead and make it interesting lol. I'm not really interested in small talk that isnt about my post.

Thanks for reading! in your opening, send your age and gender, and what you're hoping to talk about! Looking forward to hearing from you!