27 M4F new to this but looking to explore

I'll be honest I'm not sure what exactly I'm looking for. I've been celibate for nearly 3 years and have never had a fling so I guess I'm just looking to scratch the itch I've been getting

A bit about me: I'm 5'9, 160ish lbs, pretty average build. I do work out a little and I like running. I've been told I look like crispyconcords

I've been craving someone with big breasts. Really would like to play with some. Since I'm so new, I don't think I'd feel comfortable with anything more than masturbating together at first. I do have a lot of kinks I'd like to explore, the biggest one being leather. I love yoga pants, spandex and anything shiny such as latex. Lingerie in general. I would say I'm a switch (I can dom and sub) but I do have a preference for sub.

Ideally I'd like to talk a bit online and maybe sext a little before meeting up, but I'm also open to just keeping it online for a bit. In terms of longevity, if the connection is good I would like to keep seeing each other and be fwb.

I do have my own apartment but it's an old apartment so the soundproofing is not fantastic.

Please reach out via DM if you're interested, thanks:)