Other people with ADHD

Does it not annoy you guys when you want to talk to someone else with adhd as they are the only people who actually can understand your struggles and they are just oblivious to it and make you feel like you’re the only one? it just feels like some of my friends with adhd or people online are all like adhd is just a quirky side personality piece and not a genuine disability, i feel like im the only one who experiences it at a disability atp.

it’s like you are supposed to understand the struggle why do you dismiss me when i talk to you? am i just deeping it too much? am i just worse at dealing with it?