Who is the most important woman in Rick's life?

I keep wondering how far racism and misogyny can go in a fandom where a large part of the audience is predominantly male. I saw on TikTok and even on Reddit, people were asking who the most important woman to Rick was, and my jaw dropped when I read the comments and the person's own opinion, because they said it was Lori or Judith. And the comments followed the same line of thought. I understand Judith because she's his daughter, and I can even accept that opinion, but Lori? The woman who didn't even wait three weeks for Rick to wake up from his coma to sleep with Shane, besides manipulating him the whole time? And I'm counting from the moment he woke up, because the series suggests they were sleeping together since the apocalypse began, that is, a little before Rick woke up. But Michonne, the one who went to the ends of the earth to find him, the one he said was the love of his life, the one he dreamed of to stay sane at the CRM, the one whose hand he cut off to return to her, isn't she considered the most important woman in his life?