Do some men actually dislike “modern women” or is that mostly an internet thing?

Lately I have been spending way too much time reading relationship discussions online and I feel like I might be getting a really distorted view of reality.

A lot of posts and comments I see talk about men disliking “modern women” because women work, focus on careers, or are not interested in traditional roles like cooking and staying home. Some people say many men want a more traditional partner, while others say most men prefer equal relationships.

As a girl reading all of this, it is honestly confusing because the opinions seem completely opposite depending on where you look. In some spaces it sounds like there is a huge divide between men and women, but when I look at real life I still see normal couples everywhere.

So I am wondering what the reality actually looks like for most people.

Do most men actually feel negatively about the idea of “modern women”, or is that mainly something that appears more common online than it is in everyday life? Are these views concentrated in certain communities or age groups?

I am mainly curious because the internet discussions make it seem like a huge cultural conflict, and I cannot tell if that reflects real life or just certain corners of the internet.