ANSWERS FROM WOMEN ONLY (PART2)

I posted previously about this woman that was looking at me and choosing proximity. 99% of the responses said the door was open and to go for it, so go for it I did (thank you for the encouragement). And it was an implicit no thanks. Totally ok but it had me doubting my perception. Like, how badly did I misread this? Lol. On with life.

Oddly, after a few months it’s resumed a bit. For example, I was on the treadmill spacing out and she was pulling a sled perpendicular to the treadmills. Middle of her set she stopped in front of me, craned her neck and looked right at me. It was clearly deliberate. Not saying it means interest. I am saying wtf. Like you declined. A while ago. Why bother? And clearly it was actually happening initially because it cooled and then some proximity and looking again. I’m not a social buffoon. I can read a room and body language as well as anybody else. If someone hit on me and I wasn’t interested I’d kind of make it a point to avoid them. At no point have I in mid-set stopped to blatantly stare at anybody. Nor would I snag a bench next to someone after they made a pass with others open much further away. I don’t think she’s interested. Not saying that. I am saying wtf?

I shouldn’t even be giving this mental space but this is other than typical behavior so it registers.🤷‍♂️