Is this a form of breadcrumbing?

My wife and I are separated 4 days into the separation I discovered an affair she was having with a co worker. I confronted her about this and as you can imagine it did not go well. She immediately filed for divorce and even in my attempts to work things out and attempt at reconciliation she was not hearing any of it and had a lot of hate towards me painting the blame on me.

I immediately went no contact no more pleading or asking to work it out. Do I still want it to work out yes we have been through a lot in our marriage and believe it is strong enough to get through anything even an affair.

She moved all of her stuff out of the house and is living with a friend of hers. A few weeks of no contact went by with the exceptions of logistics. I would just answer her questions and move on. This week has been different she asks if she could call me and I said she could, she said she figured out what she needed but she was in a panic trying to figure something out and said everything was fine. That was all that phone conversation had to it. That night she randomly unfollows me on TikTok which is odd because I don’t even post to TikTok I just watch regularly. A day goes by and the next day she removes her relationship status from being displayed on Facebook.

She then tells me she is coming by my place of work to pick some money up from a mutual friend who I work with who is also she is living with currently and texts me and tells me she is coming by and “just wanted to let you know.”

Is she trying to get a reaction out of me?