Should I ask my friend out?

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So there's a girl in my class. We started talking like sometime January-February I think? I mean I had talked to her once before and thought she was really cool. We happened to have a conversation and she later got my number (and that of another girl at the same time tbf). She said it was to "bug me about school stuff".

We started walking home together since then. I do remember very clearly that in that first day she said she needs her moments of peace because she's a "sensitive pushover". ​​As we spent more time together I started to catch feelings. I mean I did kind of wonder of she was talking to me because she was interested at the start?

Half as a joke and also as to see how she'd react I just sent her a ridiculous googleform with a lot of ridiculous questions, one of which was "describe your views on love" and "will you be my valentine" (with all the options being yes but with the option to skip the question).

In the view on love question, she said she doesn't much care for love and wanted to talk about it in person. She also skipped the valentines question.

I've also noticed we never hang out outside of Mondays which is when we walk back home together. She usually doesn't even look at me outside of Monday last lesson. ​She also usually messages about things relating study. I mean I send her a reel or a song every Monday and she occasionally responds.

She had mentioned to me that she found it weird how no one talks to each other in the class we have together. I've seen her attempting to talk to others in the class.

So maybe I've completely misread everything and idk. I think she's really cool though. She's the coolest person I know and I rrally like her. But if I ask her out I don't want to ruin my friendship with her because she's like the only thing I look foreward to seeing in class. Talking with her always makes me feel happy. But Idk if she even wants to hang out with me. Maybe she feels compelled to when she sees me every Monday?

I don't know what to do. I've been thinking about it a lot and it makes me feel a bit worse every time. I tried talking to her today after our shared class but the conversation felt a bit stiff and ended quickly. Idk. I'm a really awkward person.

Posted Mar 6, 2026, 9:53 PM UTC

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