32 [M4F] what are you looking for? Try me on for size!

Do you find success on these subreddits? are you able to have those chats that you're craving, either knowing exactly what you're looking for or maybe you're exploring and looking for that answer? Or do they fall short?

Try me out!

-I can have a friendly chat with you. we can end up on each other's christmas card list, or we can just blow off some temporary steam.

-I can be filthy, but the more depraved it is, the more id like to ease in with you.

-new here and not even sure what you're looking for? chat with me about it! I'll listen to your stories or concerns. Want advice how to seduce your coworker? Let's talk about it!

-or like, are you just having a shitty day and need to trauma dump? that's cool too. I'm feeling chatty and it doesn't necessarily need to be about dirty stuff.

what you'll get from me if you send me a message:

-a safe and respectful space. I'm not interested in making you work for me or putting you in an uncomfortable spot. i wont pressure you for things you don't want to do. we're both humans.

- I'll never kink shame or pass judgment. we're all weirdos here!

-engagement. I like articulating thoughts and asking questions. I like finding ways to be creative with thoughts, lets try avoiding "how are yous".

-bad jokes. I'm a silly kinda guy and I'm unashamed about my terrible sense of humor!

what i expect from you:

-age and gender in your initial message. location optional. It'd be nice if you told me some more about what drew you to this post. feel free to be direct, I'm not scared of getting weird.

-please please please don't be a dry texter. I'm not here to interview you, nor am I interested in carrying 100% of the conversation. I will happily stop responding if your idea of an honest effort is one or two worded replies. (Yes, I STILL get these messages lol)

-be just as respectful. I don't need judgment nor demands from you either!

looking forward to hearing from you!