Building a Foreplay Game Centered Around Roleplay — What's Your Experience?

Hey everyone! I'm creating a foreplay game set centered around roleplay — and not just for experienced players. The game is designed to actually teach roleplay too, so it's beginner-friendly while still being fun for those who already know what they're doing.

I'm doing some research to make it as real and useful as possible, so I'd love your help with two questions:

**1. How do you initiate intimacy — and is there a signal between you and your partner that means "let's go"? A look, a touch, a phrase, a code word — anything unspoken or otherwise. How do you get things started?

2. What's in your foreplay toolkit? Think dirty talk, finding those special spots, specific gestures, massages, toys, accessories like whips or blindfolds — anything you swear by.