my Queer Issue

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hello all. i identify as pansexual. i know i have a slight of preference of women, so i’m just getting that out of the way already. well, I’m in a relationship with a Male and the relationship is still new. however, the past few days I’ve been having gay flareups and then the past couple of days thinking of myself being with a woman and what it would be like to have a relationship with someone and fall in love with one. (im AFAB ENBY i’d this makes a clearer picture) I keep thinking about myself being with someone right now in a relationship and doing all future travels with. i feel bad thinking of this while being with Him, but i can’t help it. I don’t want to lose him and hurt his feelings if I cut it off asap. because I wouldn’t be with him. But the other part of me wants to go out and explore with other women.

has anyone else gone through this? And if so, what advice can you offer to me. I don’t know if this is even the right place to ask, but considering I’m a queer person facing this very common queer problem I figured I’d reach out and ask what I should do because I feel torn here.

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