need brutal honesty: is getting a tramp stamp a good idea?

so i’m a guy, and i’ve been thinking of getting a new tattoo but the placement is something that is taking time to consider. the design isn’t anything too crazy but i think it would look nice on my lower back.

i know tramp stamps are no longer a thing and my mom told me about how they were a big trend in the late 90s/early 2000s. she never got one but said some of her friends did. i didn’t tell her i was getting one though.

asked my gf for her opinion and she was very enthusiastic about it, it’s nice knowing how supportive she is about my life choices lol. but i know most people see it as a something feminine and only women get those types of tattoos so idk.