why is the southeast asian muslim community so laxed?

this is my personal observation but they are some of the most progressive muslims i’ve seen, this gay posted himself strutting outside the masjid to azealia banks and you got like 5000 of his own community in them cmnts calling him iconic and when i click on their pages.. hijab pinned to the TOP sometimes even a niqab? something else i’ve noticed is that dating is sooo casual over there and not a taboo like everybody be posting relationship like it’s nothing? is their water different over there??