50 [M4F] #Florida - Florida fun!

Very tall, fit, attractive, professional looking for a steady playmate. I am mostly interested in the mental aspects and tend to lean more on the sensual side of BDSM. Connections are extremely important to me so I like to build things before breaking out the whips and chains. While I do look forward to spankings, restraints and floggers, due to trauma earlier in life I do not believe in degradation, physical or verbal abuse or diminishing an individual. No judgement, it's not my thing.

I have found BDSM as an outlet to enhance my life and not my guiding star. If you want a "real" Dom and If your idea of BDSM is someone spanking you on a first meeting. I'm not for you It takes time to learn about a person and what makes their mind race. Foreplay is sexy and starts way before the blindfolds.

Age is not so important. However being enthusiastic, conventionally attractive and being comfortable with yourself and desires is key. I take care of myself, take pride in my appearance and appreciate the courtesy in return. Please be HWP. and open to sharing STI results. I live in south Florida so prefer here, however in Orlando quite a bit so good in that area as well. While I am not looking for a life partner, I do prefer long term and stability so prefer someone in the same situation or familiar with ENM/open relationships.