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Imagination ko lang ba na may something?

Nagsimula to noong team building namin. I had the chance to get to know yung ibang katrabaho namin from other department of our Office.

So nung nagcelebrate ako ng birthday ko, I invited them all ( Mga 9 kami non. ) Dalawa is my cousin and his boyfriend.

This guy, hindi naman kami ganon ka close nung una pero close sila ng kaibigan ko sa office. During team building hinihiram ng kaibigan ko vape niya and then she pass it to me to try. So hanggang dumating sa point na ako na mismo nanghihiram ng vape niya.

At my birthday sa bahay lang kami ng jowa ko ( ka work ko din jowa ko btw, and yes live in kami ) he messaged me na "kung magdala daw ba sya ng playing cards na for drinking game" (yung yellow alam ko alam nyo na yon) Kako naman sige.

So nung inuman na yung buong group may pinagtitripan na ka work namin. Yung tipong from time to time siya lagi ang tinuturo para mapadami ng inom. And then at the same time this guy, may times na ako yung tinuturo niya, and thats not a random turo because totoo naman at tama kapag lagi nya ko tinuturo totoo naman na ako yung sinasabi sa card.

Doon ko simulang napansin na parang "omg bakit alam niya? Considering wala naman kaming napag uusapan prior kasi ibang department sya so minimal ang conversation at the same time, kapag may kwentuhan most likely joke lang ganun walang serious topic talaga".

Aaminin ko na curious din naman ako sa kanya. So what I did is; I became active posting myday. Kasi friend ko siya. And girl. Buong week akong nag post ng myday ko and wala ni isang myday yung na skip nya sa story ko. Idk if that normal, but I even did a little testing where I posted in the morning 2 myday, and then nung nakita ko siya online ng 2am, I posted again two and he viewed it like I expected.

Whats on my stories? Wala, tiktok ko nag lilipsync or selfie lang. (not posting revealing, proviking basta like simple selfie lang na nasa office, bahay ganon)

That didnt stop there. Hanggang ngayon ganon pa din naman sya kapag nagpopost ako. But Im not sure so, I what I did is to put him into test.

Nandoon siya sa department namin. I know he knows im not good with my ate (which is boss namin) so habang nandoon siya, with her girlfriend na bumisita sa office I noticed he stood malapit sa pinto, kasi may divider yung office namin. Isang pantry tas yung kung nasaan cubicle namin.

Sakto kasi tumawag isa kong ate. So when I put the phone down, kako sa ka work ko; "Mowwm yung ate ko tumawag na para bang kung kausapin nya ako walang nangyari" something like that and then I was adding a little bit info pa din and I can see him on my pheriperical view na nakikinig talaga siya.

Also he knows that I have jowa din in the office. There was one time na pumasok siya sa office tapos nagsabi na "gusto nyo ice tea?" may hawak kasi siya non. So nung paalis na sya kako "ice tea yan?" then he said "tikman mo" sabay abot sakin nung hawak nya pero my jowa said "gago kape yan e" then tumawa sya.

Then this is just recent.

As I was in their department nakikipag tsikahan sa isang ka close ko din he was nasa pinto. Then nung paalis na ko alam mo yung tipong na blurt out nya "maam" so lumingon ako sa kanya and asked why? tas di siya umimik. Tas kako "bakit nga" tas nag shook lang sya ng ulo then I asked again "bakit nga gagi" tas tumawa ako then he said "magpopost ako mamaya" (referring don sa may benta kasi kaming dalawa) So I said; okay.

Tapos nung uwian na din similar things happened. Im on my way sa CR tas pababa siya kasama ibang co workers namin. "'Mam X!" "Ma'am!" tas lumingon ako then he just smiled at me.

Posted Mar 8, 2026, 1:24 PM UTC

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