27 [M4F] #Germany, online | Fit academic Dom looking for a longtime online sub

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For quite some time I have been interested in BDSM and dominance in relationships in general. Most of the experiences I made were in the position of the sub. I want to change this now!

I am a 27 year old german academic, about 1.92 cm tall and weigh 87 kg. I regularly go to the gym, do cardio and tai chi and would this describe myself as quite fit. I love to read, hike, play videos games, hangout with friends and honestly can get excited for just about everything.

What I am looking for is something long term, but without the obligation to write each other constantly. I have a full time job, so my time is unfortunately limited. While I would enjoy writing even when at work, I can't guarantee it and need someone who won't mind not writing for days at a time if necessary. I would love to give you tasks and rules that you can do once you find time for it rather than working with only "real time" sessions.

I am and have always been an extremely curious person, thus it is hard to define my kinks. I am definitely interested in humiliation, edging, denial but honestly there is just soo much more that I would like to explore with you. You can probably make me interested in almost everything and I would love to try out all kinds of different, perverted ideas with you. I am also very happy to experiment and am a naturally very curious and inquisitive person. As such I love making new experiences and learn. One particular fantasy is training you to serve me better, not having or even being allowed to decide for yourself but simply obeying me with long term goal in mind (within any limits of course).

As for my limits: anything illegal, anything too public or anything leaving lasting marks. Additionally I am very proud of my job and "real life" that I have built up and won't do anything to risk harming it. this includes sending pics, videos etc. neither with nor without face. Also not into feet, ageplay or ddlg.

If you read this far and are interested, I'd be very happy to hear from you :)

Posted Mar 8, 2026, 1:25 PM UTC · locked

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