At 70, I suddenly lost the ability to walk. Rebuilding my life has been the hardest thing I've ever done.
About a year ago my life changed in a way I never expected.
It wasn’t an accident.
It wasn’t an injury.
It was something much quieter.
A severe potassium imbalance damaged the nerves in my body.
At first it was subtle. My hands felt strange. My balance felt off. Then the feeling in my arms and legs started disappearing.
Not pain.
Not weakness.
Just… no sensation.
My body stopped giving me feedback.
I couldn’t feel the ground properly when I walked. I couldn’t trust my grip. I couldn’t even tell where my feet were without looking down.
Eventually, my legs stopped cooperating, and I ended up in a wheelchair.
There is something incredibly humbling about suddenly needing help with things you’ve done your entire life without thinking.
Standing up.
Walking across a room.
Holding objects in your hands.
At 70 years old, you don't expect to suddenly have to relearn how to live inside your own body.
Recovery has been slow and sometimes frustrating. Physical therapy, small improvements, setbacks, and patience.
But something unexpected happened during this time, too.
I started writing about the experience.
About what it feels like to lose independence.
About resilience later in life.
About trying to rebuild stability when everything changes overnight.
Writing became a way to process what happened and to remind myself that my story isn't over yet.
Now my biggest goal is to rebuild enough stability to move closer to my daughter and grandchildren. Being near family feels more important than ever after something like this.
Some days are harder than others, but sharing the journey has helped me keep moving forward.
If anyone else here has had their life suddenly change because of a health issue, I would genuinely love to hear how you handled it.
How did you rebuild your life after everything changed?
Posted Mar 8, 2026, 1:27 PM UTC · locked