26 [F4M] Finding the calm amidst all this chaos

Hey there! How’s everything going?

I’ll be transparent, this is not the first time I have posted here, and I believe I might have ended my search a bit too soon last time. Furthermore, most of the messages I received from before were from people whose intentions just didn’t really align with mine.

If you’re seeking something fun BUT short-term, then I’m afraid this post is not for you. Kindly skip and go on with your day. I’m here for something steady, serious, and long-term. 🌸

ABOUT ME:

A bit about me, I’m in the healthcare profession. With that being said, my daily life pretty much revolves around organized chaos. Because of that, I have to be assertive and on my toes most of the time. Outside what I do professionally, I’m just a plus-sized girly (who is not-so-conventionally attractive but is a cutie!) who values quiet moments.

I have my own place somewhere in QC. Mainly filled with all things cute and girly, just to decompress myself from the stress of never-ending duties.

When I’m not drowning in the toxicity of my chosen vocation, I’m a big-time gamer and bookworm! I might be your textbook nerd as well. I’m genuine, low-maintenance, but I do struggle with verbalizing my need for help. Above all, I value physical presence and quality time over flashy gestures. I would appreciate if we can meet on a semi-regular to regular basis.

ABOUT YOU:

Since this is another attempt, I would want to be more specific this time around. Yes, I live a hectic life, but my heart is ready for a stable commitment. And so, I’m looking for someone who is actually ready for a commitment as well. Hindi 'yung "see where this goes" for months without a plan. We don’t have to talk 24/7 because I understand we both have to live our own lives, but ayoko din ng pasulpot-sulpot lang. Make me feel your presence in simple ways throughout the day and week.

I want someone who is gentle, patient, and okay with someone na independent pero gusto din matawag na “baby girl” (aka ME). Someone who appreciates the beauty of comfortable silence, lounging around while we both do our thing.

I’d prefer someone who is older, although I wouldn’t mind dating someone the same age as I am. It didn’t matter before, but now I’d also prefer someone who has a job or at least isn’t struggling too much financially. It’s not because I’d ask you to spend for me, but because I want us to be able to afford what we want for ourselves without burdening each other.

Although I ended my search early last time, I believe there’s still someone out there who wants the same thing that I want.

If you think we’re on the same page, slide into my DMs! Please skip the "Hi/Hello" only. Tell me: What’s your favorite way to de-stress, and what are you actually looking for right now?