AITAH for not adding my fiance on social media?

So I 30f and my fiance 29f had a conversation earlier this morning after she had a dream that I cheated on her. She asked that I add her on Facebook so that she can see who has liked my posts and commented on them. I feel like this is another “prove yourself “ test that she likes to do, and I’m done proving myself when my word should be enough.

I’ve asked her in the past why we weren’t friends on Facebook and she brushed it off saying she doesn’t really get on Facebook. she’s added her new coworkers, but not me- someone she’s known for 10 years. I wouldn’t have a problem adding her on facebook if this wasn’t a prove yourself situation again. I’ve don’t that before with her and I’m tired of it. An example of her prove yourself test is in the past she wanted me to share my phone screen with her so that she can go through my texts and phone call log. She requested to see my recently deleted and got upset that nothing was in the recently deleted messages. That’s just one of the many examples.

Also, just last week she sent me a screenshot of a post from Facebook and in that screenshot I saw a Facebook dating notification and asked her about it and she told me it was old and she doesn’t even on facebook and reassured me that she only wants me. I took her word for it, even given her history.

To clarify, I have no history of cheating on her, but she’s been caught texting at least three other ladies, then try to blame me after saying the reason she texted them is because I broke up with her . Then I reminded her that the reason we broke up is because I caught her texting two people she used to date.

I know I could’ve simply added her to put her mind at ease, but I am tired of being put through tests to prove myself..