I talked to my ex yesterday

Excuse my English it’s not my first language also a long post.

Me and my ex have not been talking for a while because of an argument with it being largely a misunderstanding and a miscommunication, and these two factors have been the reason for the downfall of the relationship; we don’t communicate well then we fight then we reconcile and then all over again. Both of us are over thinkers in a really bad way.

She’s so nice, lovely, compassionate and everything she’s literally really nice but she has a lot of trauma from her family problems especially her dad who used to abuse her and is not there for her or at their home for most of the time, that’s why she’s not communicating well and overthinks a lot.

We broke up a while ago and one of the reasons in my side that I haven’t to her about is her family problems especially her dad and I can’t hear anything about fatherhood in general because my dad passed away in a really bad way because of cancer and i have my own problems from what i saw. We still see each other every week because we go to the same church and participate in the activities there as well, and like two weeks ago we got into a fight over another misunderstanding, yesterday she texted me to sort it out and we did but we also confessed to each other that we miss the time we spent together and all that but we didn’t get back together, also there is another guy in the picture now who’s trying to get close to her and she told me in a way that she’s like over me but in a straight up way.

Idk what to do now i really miss her..