63 [M4F] yes, older than average here but not dead
Tall, awkward, kind. Liberal. Sober. Atheist. Enneagram 5.
I'm not looking for my next spouse, perhaps you aren't either. I'm looking for a steady girlfriend-a monogamous FWB of sorts. I'm rather open minded and left leaning. GGG and respectful. Easy going.
I feel kinship with other makers, DIYer's, creative types, liberals, sarcasm and dark humor. The friendship part can include but not limited to catching a movie, having dinner out or cooking dinner together. When the weather is warmer- road trips to the coast or mountains or another city. Kayaking, hiking, dance lessons...
I am also open to exploring some kinks with the right partner. Any unmet proclivities?
Some stats for your consideration- I'm 6 ft., ~ 200lbs. Average build, bald, glasses and optional facial hair. Self-employed digital maker/ fabricator, BFA & MFA educated. Amicably divorced dad with 50% custody. I'm a non-smoker(please be a non-smoker too). Sober and comfortable with responsible drinkers. Introverted-quiet at parties, more engaged one-on-one. Don't be alarmed at my "advanced" age😉. Besides the usual wear and tear I am snipped and vaxxed.
If anything resonates, let me know.
Portland area only.
Messages with just "hi" or "hey" will likely be ignored.
Posted Mar 8, 2026, 5:52 PM UTC · locked