am i in the wrong for kicking my roommate out because she kept bringing her boyfriend in
i am a Malay muslim, female and my roommate is American Korean. she came all the way from America to study here in the same uni as i am, we met on discord and have been roommates for 2 semesters now.
recently she got into a relationship, and she often brought her bf into our home. he often just hangs out in the living room, eating our snacks and sometimes even slept for a couple of days at our house.
i’ve spoke out about it to her many times, how i don’t feel comfortable having a guy coming over all the time. our neighbours are majority Malays, and i’m just worried what would they think seeing a man coming in and out of our home and me being a muslim. it just doesn’t look too good for me. all she ever say is “don’t worry, i’ll just tell them he’s my boyfriend if anyone reports”. but that’s NOT the point !
at one point, i can hear them DOING IT every night and i just can’t take it anymore. the house is under my dad’s name so i felt a little entitled. i said i’ve given plenty of chances and warning, either she go to his place instead or move out. i can’t stand having a roommate like this. we argued for a few days, i do feel a little guilty but isn’t she supposed to be a little considerate of me? or am i the one that’s being inconsiderate of my roommate. i need people’s opinion!!!
Posted Mar 8, 2026, 5:53 PM UTC