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Dating after the surgery?

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Hello there!

I'm a cis woman and I've had my surgery a little over a year ago and I must say it's been wonderful. I had been struggling with my chest a lot (double D's ) and I had always wanted to look more androgynous, although ever since the surgery I've started feeling much more confident in my body and I'd say now I'm very femme presenting and totally comfortable with my feminity.

I've recently started dating again after rather rough experiences (it was pre-surgery) and I've had these anxious thoughts that my dates would find my chest weird or ugly (fyi I went with no nips, but I want to cover my chest in tattoos as soon as I have enough money.)

I don't regret my surgery at all, I feel sexier than I've ever been, I'm just really self-conscious what other people will think (it's bad, I know), but I really want to enter a relationship and sooner or later, the other person will see my chest.

What were your experiences? Did you have problems finding partners or did you have any unpleasant situations where no breasts was a deal-breaker?

I'm bisexual, so I'm worried both men and women will find me unattractive because of this :(

Posted Mar 8, 2026, 5:54 PM UTC

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