Which one is a better deal?

I’m trying to decide between two BMW X3s and would appreciate some advice.

Option 1:

• 2022 BMW X3 xDrive30i

• M-Sport package

• ~15k

$38k

https://www.carmax.com/car/28256946

Option 2:

• 2023 BMW X3 sDrive30i

• Base trim (no M-Sport)

• ~18k miles

• $34k

https://www.carmax.com/car/28256903

My main questions:

1. From a value standpoint, which one makes more sense?

Is the M-Sport worth the ~$4k premium?

2. Does the M-Sport suspension make the ride noticeably harsher?

For those who have owned both — does the M-Sport feel significantly different in daily driving, or is it mostly cosmetic?