Why I response with inner attack when someone gives advice?

Does anyone have any insight to what might be happening behind all this? I try to find the root of this issue.

I'm not lashing out verbally to anyone.

When someone, whom I love dearly and I know their advice comes from a loving heart, gives me advice..I go nuts on the inside!!

It does not even show to the outside but on the inside.. chaos. I know in my head they're right and agree with them but my emotions starts to whirl and I can't even name those feelings, there is so much happening.

It has something to do with my childhood trauma and abuse.Why part of me attacks against me?!