Is my husband cursed?
I have been thinking about this for a long time, and I wanted to ask for help or an opinion, but I kept denying that it might be something like this.
Ever since I’ve been with my husband, he has always said that he is very unlucky and that I am the luck in his life. And he means it literally, not just figuratively. If things go smoothly for me and everything seems to fall into place, he has to work 10 or 20 times harder.
One of the hundreds of examples: he sent his CV, was accepted, and in the end they told him they no longer had the budget. It feels like everything dissolves at the exact moment it should happen.
But I’m starting to believe that there is a problem, that there is something behind it. So many things happen to him without explanation that maybe I sound crazy, but I’ve started to wonder if it could be a curse.
So I began to search and ask his mother whether something in their family might have been inherited transgenerationally. Maybe something from the grandparents that they’re not aware of.
At that moment his mother had a sudden realization and remembered that his grandparents once went to a witch to ask for help because their son (my husband’s uncle) was with a girl they didn’t like, and they believed she had cast spells on him. She said the witch confirmed that the girl had indeed done some spells on their son, and that was it. She said they didn’t ask for help or anything further.
But it doesn’t feel to me like that’s the whole story.
So my question is: what should we do? What kind of help should he seek? He has always been a believer, he goes to church on Sundays, he fasts, and he tries to cleanse himself spiritually. Who could help him in a situation like this?
Posted Mar 8, 2026, 5:56 PM UTC