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made out with a stranger for the first time

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TL;DR made out with a cute girl I met at a club; feel like life just became a lot more uncomplicated

All my life, I've been extremely nervous to approach girls, and haven't known how you'd even start to make a move. Since lesbian bars and clubs are quite rare, and nowadays even straight women like to go to general "queer"/LGBTQ spaces, I just assumed it'd be too complicated to even find wlw out there in the world, let alone make anything spontaneous happen. So I've just been going dancing by myself for about half a year to enjoy the music without even thinking about hooking up.

Fast forward to today (happy women's day!!!). A local gay club had all women DJs playing, so of course I go to check it out. It was a bit emptier than usual, so I ended up a lot closer to the front (also to see the beautiful DJ hahah). At some point a very cute girl was dancing next to me and I smiled at her, she started to dance with me, I followed along. We just kind of naturally circled and approached each other until we were kissing and eventually fully making out. Nobody around us was creepy or weird about it (probably because most guys there were gay - in general I try to dance next to girls or if that fails, the gayest man I can find lmao) and it was beautiful. After like 10 minutes I ended up making an excuse and running away because it was too overwhelming, but I had a really great time :')

I never thought something like this would happen to me. I'm still kind of giddy about it <3 To all my shy/awkward fellow lesbians out there, this could be you one day when you least expect it!!!

Posted Mar 8, 2026, 6:01 PM UTC

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