I (27f) told my wife (25f) that her belly was interfering with sexual climax

Normally I do the strapping/dominate one. But sometimes we mix it up and Im the reciever. Its difficult because she typically has a hard time due to not knowing how to move properly or stomach just restricting the movement (i never mentioned this to her before last night). Its one of the reasons why i dont ask to do it often, I prefer being the top anyway.

I asked to be the down last night and she was very exicted and into it.I had a clit stim on and i was really close to o-ing but her stomach kept moving it away while she was trying to thrust. Sexually fustrated me asked if we can stop, which we did, She was all like "why? Whats going on". Then I start having panicking because I am didn't know what to do. She always had very negative feelings about her body and I knew this. So thats why the panick stirred up.

I also have conversion disorder so I dissociate and have pseudo sezuires in stressful situations.. so I ended up having one. She then pressured me to talk to her because she could tell I was stressed. I told her "I am very scared to share this with you I feel like I have to share this because you know something is bothering me, but at the time I was sexually fustrated thats why I asked for you to stop. It has nothing to do with your looks at all it, it's just your stomach is getting in the way, and its moving my clit stim and also restricting how far the toy goes in so it's making it really hard for me to finish." I tried my best not to hurt her feelings.. But I clearly did. At first she laid there in silence for 30 mins. Then went to sleep on the couch. The next day she doesnt wanna do anything but lay there in silence staring at the ceiling. 10 minutes ago i heard her go into the bathroom and I'm gonna assume start banging her head against the wall, but she didn't let me in or talk to me when I knocked on the door. I just don't know how to help her. I need advice, also was my communication incorrect? I tried my best