I think there seems to be a misunderstanding.

I think there seems to be a misunderstanding.

Good afternoon Lovelies!

I hope you all are falling into the time change smoother than I have been today. I usually don't feel like I was robbed of an hour, but today - its heavy hehe.

I was just taking some time to look back at my posts, and realized that the majority of them are "pet peeves" - which often come with a negative connotation. This reflection was inspired by a few hateful messages I've received over the last little while. Many of whom say things like "This is why your life is so awful" or "You're a hateful bitch, that's why no one sticks around". All messages from randos who don't mean anything to me, but allowed me to do a bit of introspection.

For those of you who have been following me for a while or are members of the various groups and initiatives I'm apart of, you know that my pet-peeves were created as sort of a tongue and cheek kinda writing style. A fun way for folks to get to know me, and start a dialogue that isn't all whips and chains. But I think it's manifested itself into a false narrative that I feel the need clear up.

I have a wonderful, fulfilling, love filled life. I have friends and family that care about me, a dog I adore, a thriving business and a community of compassionate, trustworthy people. Don't misunderstand... It was never a NEED for a d/s dynamic, it was a WANT. I can very much go the rest of my life without it. I am far from unhappy. In fact, I sometimes feel like I have TOO MUCH love to give, which is why a bit of my heart often pours into a dynamic.

I urge trolls and heartbroken souls to choose love and therapy. Meditation and yoga were a game changer for me. This isn't real life. Disconnect, go outside and enjoy the fresh air. Start a conversation with a stranger that isn't motivated by hatred or insecurity.

I promise you, there's so much joy in the world, you just gotta find it.

Happy spring! xoxo