Men of Reddit, what made you realize you genuinely love the woman in your life rather than just enjoying being in a relationship?

As a woman Sometimes I feel like men put in a lot of effort to impress a woman in the beginning just to get into a relationship. But even after the relationship starts, it can still feel a bit performative, like they’re playing a role instead of being genuine.

So this is my perceptive as a woman. But I want your perception as well.

Just tell me what signs made you realize your feelings for your partner were real love and not just relationship comfort?