Dating Feels Empty

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Soo need genuine advice! Had a breakup a long time ago. It really took me a long time to actually date and I did not take anyone seriously like for 2-3 years. I recently tried to start dating and the strange thing about it is... There is just no excitement in me. Like at all!! It is not as though I am still clung to my ex. I really believe that I have outgrown it. I do not miss, I do not compare people with, nothing of that kind. However, when I encounter a new person or attempt to communicate with someone, it is simply flat. None of the butterflies, no inquisitiveness, no feeling of attraction. It is almost like my brain is indifferent to everything. It is annoying, I would like to have someone to care about, but it is simply not the case. Was just thinking that if whether this is due to the fact that I am overthinking things or something in me just broke down due to that relationship. Is this something that any other person has experienced after a long time after the end of a break up? Is it that I eventually get excited, or is this something I have to make myself work on?!