People who found love again after heartbreak later in life, what is your story?

I (42F) am currently a few weeks out of the abrupt, unexpected and cold end of a 9 year relationship. I am experiencing immense grief and pain like I never would have imagined. Part of it is a feeling that it will be impossible to find love again and that no one will ever compare to my ex (even though he treated me poorly at the end). Please share your stories of finding love after loss to give my broken heart a glimpse of hope ❤️‍🩹 Thank you in advance.