36 [F4M] #Portland #PNW Experienced kinkster looking for a soft dom to help me explore my subby side

Hi there. I'm someone who's been domming almost exclusively until now, but recently started switching and would like to explore my submissive side with a caring Dom. Please read my whole post, then DM if you think we'd be a fit :)

Me:

• Femme presenting NB. I don't mind leaning into my feminine side in the kink space, but please be queer friendly.
• Solo poly, not willing to be monogamous.
• Pretty fuzzy; I trim the important bits but I don't shave my legs, happy trail, etc.
• Soft hourglass shape. I'm around a size 12. Short hair.
• Not shy about kinks. Whatever you're into, I will not be shocked.
• I can host but my place is tiny.
• As a dom, I enjoy edging handjobs, orgasm control, chastity, post orgasm torture, CBT, ballbusting, impact, and other sadistic torments, all with the angle of "affectionate cruelty." I would be willing to switch with the right person, but please know I'm much more interested in submitting at the moment.
• Limits: Receiving anal, choking, blood

You:

• Age 30-55 ish
• Genuinely interested in kink/BDSM, not just rough vanilla sex 🙄 nonzero kink experience preferred
• Actively communicative. I like a lot of chatting (can you tell?)
• Available for in person visits in the Portland area
• I'm open to all genders but I'm deep in my masc dad bod bear era at the moment.

My ideal dynamic:

• Not looking for 24/7, TPE, or high protocol. We are friends and equals outside of scenes.
• A gentle but firm style of dominance. No degradation or humiliation. More in the direction of punishment, discipline, training.
• You can throw me around a little, but I generally like a careful and deliberate vibe over rough/primal play.
• Light restraint and light S/M with the potential for intensifying as I get comfortable.
• So far spanking is my favorite thing, especially OTK. Light impact all over me. Clamps. Tease and denial. Feet tickling and torment. Dirty talk.
• I can warm up to an orgasm control / edging type scene, but don't expect to "force" multiple Os out of me. I'm usually one and done.
• Zero or minimal age play. I do like the term "Daddy" but kinda independent of the incest and age play implications.

This is obviously not an exhaustive list, so don't be afraid to reach out if you're not a perfect fit, as long as you're not trying to cross my expressed limits. Don't wait, I may get shy and delete this later. Hope to hear from some folks soon~