Am I a pick me?

Question

So I am homeschooled so I don’t have much context or much to base this off of. Someone called me a pick me once and everyone who actually knows me says “no you’re not a pick me” though I still wonder? So here’s some things about me:

• I have an avoidant attachment style so that makes it hard to get close to people offline. (Even online)

• I don’t like a lot of girly stuff, and even find a lot of chatter annoying. Light weather talk isn’t for me.

• I hate gossip I am not interested in rumors that are probably lies that don’t affect me.

• I don’t look for boyfriends or any romantic relationship so it allows me to be friends with everyone including males.

• I love nature and dogs and I don’t mind getting muddy I actually like it. Means I went on an adventure. I sain (go net fishing) for fun and do my bird feeders (I love birds!).

• I dislike/hate makeup and only apply it on very special occasions.

• I can listen but am very not complainish I don’t complain even when in pain for up to years.

• I like laughing and am very positive a lot and am not always good at picking up social ques.

• if someone needs help I’ll give it.

• I can be really loyal to someone I barely know.

Idk… 🤷‍♀️

Posted Mar 8, 2026, 8:07 PM UTC

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