45 [M4F] I want to make your eyes sparkle, and your cheeks flush (East Coast, Traveller)

Remember when you used to be on the edge, hoping your phone would ding with that next tantalizing message?
Let's get that going again. I'm not looking to change your situation, and I enjoy mine (Life's just giving the challenges that life gives).

I miss flirting, online chatting, and those tantalizing messages that always make the day better.

I'm a 45yo professional, with a fun, varied career past. I have a ton of fun hobbies that I don't have enough time to engage in. My home life is such that my wife and I are both looking for external outlets. She got hers, and it's time I do something about my sanity. It's not a dead bedroom, just one that keeps getting invaded by someone we have to care for with kid gloves. However, I have been in a dead bedroom situation in the past, and would not wish that on anyone. It's tough, people try their hardest to do the "right thing" and go absolutely crazy as a result. Don't do that. Come say "Hi" instead.

I'm a pretty kinky guy, open-minded, and non-judgmental. Women are freakin' sexy. If you have something about you that you are nervous about, shy, or just reluctant to risk on someone, come talk to me. I am NOT into cookie cutter appearances, and if you can't hold a conversation, please skip me. If you're trying to hook me onto one of your sites, please skip me. If you want my phone number immediately, please skip me. If you have hate in your heart, I am not the person for you. I take care of my people, my community, and the folks that I can reach (And I will treat you the same way, if not better).

What I'm looking for: Be funny, creative, and will to experience some thrills. I love helping people do the things they've always wanted to do (and that's so hot when it comes to sexy sheet monster times).

I'm not going to pressure you for pics, phone numbers, meet-ups, or really anything (unless you want some D/s fun, in which case be GGG, and SSC. If you don't know what those are, look them up).

I'm more interested in what you do for fun than what you do for a living, but I'll talk shop too, if you want. You need someone to be your office husband, I was literally told I needed an office wife.

So, shoot me a message. If you made it this far, let me know what you do for fun.

Thanks for reading, and I do hope to talk to you