Dynamo main having trouble with team and playing with friends

So, last few matches I have played I noticed my team isn't hitting the camps at the right timing, how can I explain my friends when to do camps better? Cus usually they hit them right after getting to a lane that HAS enemy players trying to push lane, isn't it the exact moment when you shouldn't be prioritising going after them to secure a kill instead of doing the camps? I know that what I do is annoying to my friends cus usually when they hit the camp while enemy players are still in lane I help them by using the shockwave to kill the camp faster, from my point of view it is more important not giving the enemy team the chance to get it if they see us in there and try to kill us inside so doing it quicker is better than getting a lot of farm from it. But my friends have been criticising this behaviour "cus the farm is split in two" AT THE SAME TIME there is a 1vs2 chance being wasted because they prioritise the camp over player fights. So how do we proceed going forward? Do you have some tips as to how to improve our "farming system"