29M4F Submissive Scientist & Active Homebody Looking for a Meaningful LTR or FWB in Toronto

Hi! I’m giving this a shot as an alternative dating platform because I want to be fully transparent.

About me: I’m a 29-year-old Caucasian guy (190 cm, 85 kg) working as a scientist in a STEM field. Personality-wise, I’m an INTP and definitely more of a homebody. I’d describe myself as smart, funny, ambitious, emotionally intelligent and stable, empathetic, supportive, caring, and a little silly/weird (in a fun way). I’m lucky to work in a field I’m passionate about, and I have plenty of hobbies I’m passionate about too. I’m physically active—I work out 3–5x a week and play sports 1–3x a week (when the weather cooperates). I love cooking (Asian fusion, Italian, and American foods), watching TV, and playing board games (my collection is always growing).

What I’m looking for in a partner: Someone in their 20s who wants a serious relationship or ongoing fwb dynamic, is emotionally intelligence, lives a healthy lifestyle, and is educated or in school. I’m attracted to people who have something they’re passionate about (please tell me about it!), who are a bit of a homebody like me but still enjoy going out for nice dates. If you’re funny, playful, and ambitious you get bonus points :P

What I want: A serious, supportive relationship where we can grow together, enjoy each other’s company, and ideally become best friends with shared interests. I'm also open to an ongoing fwb with similar dynamics.

Why I’m here / A note on compatibility: I’m here because I really value deep connection across all aspects of a relationship including emotional, lifestyle, and sexual compatibility. Outside the bedroom, I’m assertive, take initiative, and enjoy planning dates and experiences. In the bedroom, however, I’m more on the submissive side. I enjoy intercourse, but I’m most fulfilled in dynamics that include service-oriented submission and worshiping my partner (e.g., giving massages, oral, and etc). This has been a mismatch in past relationships, so I’d love to find someone who’s comfortable with this and enjoys that side of things as well.

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out I'd love to chat.