how can i make my bf highkey obsessed with me?

DESPERATE. We're in love and all but I rlly want him to reach that level of hunger, an intense level of desire, like a man deprived of me for months! I mean, I told him to be a good boy and not masturbate for a while bc we're abta have a staycay this weekend but he told me yesterday that he felt so horny js thinking abt me stroking him. pls help a girlie out 😩