trouble tapping into the right mindset

Hiii, im new to this subreddit and i have a rant i wanted to share. i have this problem when manifesting certain things and i hope you can help me.I can litteraly manifest a text from a boy in minutes or seconds just by repeating has just texted me" a few times and then tapping into the emotions i would have when he texted me, because i know what it feels like to get a text. but i want to manifest a lot of money for my family, a friendgroup and an apartment for myself, but since i never really had money or a big friendgroup i have no idea how to tap into the emotions of having either of those things. also i think it's harder to not check the 3D since if i want a text from a boy i can just not check my phone, but how do i pretend i have my own apartment when i'm not in it? i don't think scripting or robotic affirming is necessary and it's also not an issue with me not beliving in my own power since ik i can manifest instantly. can anyone help me plss