29 [F4M] #chicago #USA - Sweet Blonde Submissive Looking for something real and deep, open to eventual relocation
Hi, I am newly back in the Midwest and am currently looking to be owned, trained and loved. I am not new to the lifestyle and happy to share all the details when I find the right fit. I lean towards very controlled dynamics, really enjoy TPE and being collared. I enjoy the slow build where bit by bit you break me and train me as yours.
Long term, i know what i want, to be owned, have children, be a homemaker. I work in finance and have a pretty demanding job so you would need to be open and patient with my availability, but understanding that for the right person I will focus on them more and more as it gets more serious and hopefully this eventually leads to me quitting my job to raise our family.
I am only interested in white collar professionals and less interested in blue collar workers. This is mainly because i really need someone that understands my life now and then can also help me meet my intellectual needs and support the type of lifestyle i want going forward.
Someone aged 28-38, maybe some flex on the age upwards by a few years but it has to be a super clear fit. Taller than 6ft.
I’m naturally very submissive in relationships and would love a TPE dynamic, but I want something that to the outside eye looks like a perfect family where the wife serves her husband but behind it we both know you control everything. Happy to share more specific kinks if this evolves.
A bit about me: I’m 5’10, blonde, 29f blue-eyed, curvy. I live in Illinois (but open to relocating for the right one). Very high sex drive. Outgoing fun girly who will drag you on the most random adventures. Some of my favorite things include cooking, baking, traveling, hiking, reading, and listening to podcasts or audiobooks. I am trying to learn German and would love to learn to sail. I’d describe myself as kind, affectionate, intelligent, and family-oriented with a lot of energy and motivation to solve every problem. I am heavily analytical and overthink most things. I am very intelligent and have a bachelors degree as well as two masters degree from top institutions.
Will prioritize those closer to Chicago, as I’m really looking for something in person, serious, long-term. About you, dominant personality, preferably an extrovert, taller than 6 feet, I typically do much better with educated, white collar professionals. Want someone who will relentlessly persue a relationship and my submission. I am only interested in those experienced as a dom and are strictly dominant.
I would want to video call early on and plan visits within the first few months. Be prepared to send photos early on. If you stuck with me through my endless rambling, feel free to reach out with a thoughtful message and maybe a few good jokes.
Please dont waste my time as i won’t waste yours xx
Posted Mar 8, 2026, 8:14 PM UTC · locked