33 F4M #MST: I won’t be your forever but that doesn’t mean this can’t be genuine 💋
Let’s keep it simple and honest. I’m not searching for a soulmate, a co-parent, or someone to argue about trivial matters like thermostat settings in the future. I’m looking for connection, attraction, and a touch of excitement.
Here’s a quick rundown of what I’m looking for:
Intentions: I’m not looking for a long-term relationship. Think of it as a “great chapter” rather than an “entire book.”
Vibe: I want someone intentional, confident, discreet, and honest. (I see the irony since we are both married)
Chemistry matters: I value wit, banter, and that undeniable spark. Attraction for me isn’t solely physical; I’m more of a sapiosexual. I’m tall and plus size for physical reference.
Lifestyle: I’m busy and independent, but we both want to make time for each other, even during our commutes or extra errands. We can have calls that are intellectual or spicy. I have a flexible lifestyle and may be willing to travel for the right connection, if that’s something we both desire.
Energy: I prefer intentional, curious, nurturing male energy think pastor or counselor. No MAGA, I’m too leftist for that to work out.
Bonus points: If you appreciate humor, can flirt intelligently, and understand that fun is better when expectations are clear, you’ll be a great match.
What you get:
Good conversation and laughter
Someone to collaborate with on life
A situation where we both know exactly what we’re getting
Posted Mar 10, 2026, 11:35 AM UTC