trying again aitah

so this got deleted for violence so i'm trying again. none of my friends (myself included) like our friends boyfriend. amongst many other reasons, one that's coming up a lot is the fact that we can't make jokes about him specifically his hair colour (guess what colour) but he can say anything he wants about us under the guise of it being a joke.

exhibit a, my friend had posted a story and my other best friend and i posted comments hyping her up. then the next story she posts, this is the comment thread;

friends boyfriend–Now I better NOT see any comments from @bestfriend or @me

me–@friendsbf keep it moving chump

me–comment hyping friend up.

friends boyfriend–@me I'm gonna sk1n you and lie your sk1n down as a rug and I'm going to p0p your mouth open with an apple

friend–@me you gonna take that?

just need to know if i'm overreacting or if this is insane behaviour, again there's a bunch of other reasons why we dont like him but i dont want to make this any more identifiable than i already have