What’s up with the girls here?

Chiang Mai/North

I’m 25 male not European but still attractive/ white american

None of the ladies here gave me the time of day

No matches on tinder, only lady boys.

Thai friendly not a single solid match. Only freelancers

I go to walk outside. I’ll see girls my age walk in my direction and they’ll see me and then quickly look down at their phone as they walk by to avoid eye contact or communication.

What am I doing wrong?

Do they only like Blond/ blue eyed Europeans?

Have they just deal with enough foreigners to not be interested in it anymore?

I sincerely would’ve loved to have met a girlfriend here. But it honestly feels like nobody’s interested in me atleast.

And again I’m young, handsome w money.

None of them have even given me the opportunity or welcoming vibe to talk to them.

Am I doing something wrong?

Don’t get me wrong. I will never come back to Thailand after this experience. I will never find a wife here. This place is a paradise for 40 year old people. Not for young people.

Posted Mar 14, 2026, 12:21 AM UTC

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