24 [M4F] #USA #MST - Dominant looking for someone to care for, cherish, and use like a sex toy
At the end of the day, I'm looking for a life partner, so ideally, this goes from online to irl eventually. I want my partner to be my best friend, so personal compatibility is more important than sexual compatibility for me, but both is nice if possible (hence why I'm posting on a bdsm page).
Physically, I am roughly 5'8" and 155-160 lbs, and I work to keep that as much muscle as possible. I have brown hair that reaches past my shoulder blades and some facial hair. Generally, I've got kind of the "Will from Pirates of the Caribbean" look going on, although slightly more Asian due to my half-Japaness ancestry.
Outside of sex, I'm a pretty standard nerd. I work as a software developer, watch anime, and play board games and card games a lot. I'm an experienced D&D dungeon Master and have a general passion for analyzing the structure of both stories and game mechanics. As mentioned, I work out regularly. My favorite musical artists in no particular order are Carter Vail, Tom Cardy, and Sleep Token.
Sexually, I am into master/slave relationships, CNC, free use, orgasm control/denial/forcing, choking, anal, impact play, watersports, and a plethora of other things that we can get into later if you're interested. I love anything that gets my dick in a mouth, and I'm fond of being worshipped. My general rule is that if my sub isn't crying and begging to be allowed to stop cumming by the end of sex, I haven't don't my job as a dom. I am not naturally drawn to degrading my sub, but it is a skill that I have practiced a fair amount.
My limits include scat, permanent bodily harm, and age regression.
As hinted in the title, my ideal dynamic is as follows: I make sure that you are provided for, taken care of, and protected, and you worship me as your master. I want my sub to feel safe in my arms and afraid in the bedroom (in a fun, sexy way, of course).
If you've gotten this far and are still interested, here are some potential red flags:
- I lean right politically
- I am vaguely religious
- I am naturally stubborn and prideful (which I am actively working on, but have not yet completely overcome)
- I am very frugal
I'm sure there are more, but those are the big ones off the top of my head. I don't expect you to have the same political and religious views as me, but I expect you to respect my values as I respect yours. Similarly, I don't expect you to share all my hobbies with me, but I would love it if you'd be willing to participate in things I love and share the things you love with me as well.
Now, if I've still managed to keep your attention, here is what I'd like in a partner:
- Between the ages of 21 and 27 (negotiable, but that's the ideal range)
- Physically fit
- Open to honest communication about our relationship, feelings, needs, etc.
- okay with getting married at some point
- Submissive sexually
Bonus points for being cat-eyed or having red hair, but obviously those aren't necessary at all.
Thank you for taking the time to read all of this! If you think we'd be a good match, please reach out. I am happy to verify by swapping sfw photos, and am excited to get to know you!
Posted Mar 14, 2026, 12:22 AM UTC